How to be loved and accepted by others

So many people wish to be loved and accepted, however they fail to do those things that builds up love in the hearts of others towards a person. Here are a few tips:
1. Love Yourself: Loving yourself entails a whole lot of things. It involves accepting yourself for who and what you are. Loving yourself makes you lovable and makes it easier for others to love you. Stop despising yourself Spoil yourself once in a while cos there is no other person on the earth that has all the characteristics you have. You have what no other person has, You are special.
2. Love Others: Loving others creates an avenue for you to be loved. When you show love to some one, sch person will not give you hatred in return. They want to return the favor, so show love to someone, they could be in need of that caring word at that time, that loving action might just be in time to save someone.
3.Don't take offences: That someone is mad at you at a specific point in time does not mean they hate you. Exercise patience in dealings with people, as we all have our up and down moments.
4. Above all, love God; When you life God, You automatically love God in the lives of people around you and the favor is returned.